The 2012 film People Like Us tells the story (inspired by true events) of a slick-talking, self-assured salesman named Sam whose estranged father dies from cancer. Sam, who has stayed clear from his parents for years, reluctantly returns home and learns of a secret that turns his world completely upside down. In the process of fulfilling one of his father’s last wishes, he discovers that he has a sister, Frankie, whom he never knew existed.
Sam, much like his father, is not good at relationships. He doesn’t know how to open up or show empathy to others. Nor does he put a lot of stock in being part of a family. But Sam finds himself slowly pushing through his relational hiccups and reaches out to connect with Frankie, who has never recovered from being abandoned by her father as a child.
At first, Sam doesn’t tell her who he is. When Frankie, who is a struggling single mom, finally learns the truth, she feels utterly betrayed and wants nothing to do with Sam.
Eventually, Sam contacts Frankie again and attempts to apologize for keeping the truth from her. Frankie understandably asks him how she’s supposed to be able to trust him again. With the conviction of one who has been genuinely questioning everything he always believed about family and relationships, Sam says to her, “Because we’re family, and family makes mistakes . . . Let me be your brother.”
“Family makes mistakes.” As one who grew up in a family of nine and has raised a family of my own, that sure has been true for me. By no means does this excuse the mistakes we make with each other, but mistakes, big and small, are a common part of our brokenness as human beings. The families who realize this are the families who are open to giving each other second chances that allow broken relationships to recover and grow.
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P.S. Be warned. If you happen to watch this movie, you are going to have to take the good with the bad. After all, it’s a Hollywood film. But from this viewer’s perspective, I was pleasantly moved by the message about the importance of family and second chances and found it to overwhelmingly outshine the inappropriate qualities of the film.